Tuesday Tip: Dealing with stress eating

Tuesday Tip: Dealing with stress eating 🍫

I think many of us struggle to make healthy decisions when we’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed. Heightened emotions can drive you to engage in self-destructive coping strategies which range from eating too much, not eating enough, overthinking, isolating yourself, procrastinating, overworking etc. These are just some ways in we learn to cope, but these strategies often come with a cost. If stress eating is one of your coping strategies then the cost could be that you don’t stick to your plan, and then over eat and feel guilty etc which further adds to the feeling of stress and overwhelm.

So how do you prevent this? The problem is these behaviours are often instinctive. You do them mindlessly. If you want to change them then you have to actually remember that at the time when you’re feeling overwhelmed. It helps to anticipate these situations in advance – identify which situations tend to leave you feeling overwhelmed. Then the key is to take ‘REST’ – relax, evaluate, set an intention, take action – R E S T!

A good indicator that you need a REST is when you feel an intense emotion, or have a desire to act impulsively, even if you don’t know why. These are moments of choice.

You can either do what you normally do – react impulsively and potentially cause more distress for yourself. Or you can relax, evaluate, set an intention, and take action using a healthier coping skill.

RELAX – Pause. Take a breath. Step away from the situation to get a different perspective.

EVALUATE – Observe what is happening for you physically, emotionally, and mentally.

How do I feel? What’s happening? What are the facts?

SET AN INTENTION – Ask yourself, ‘What do I need right now?’ Coping, problem solving, self-soothing, communication.

TAKE ACTION – Put your plan into motion (call a loved one, go for a walk, distract yourself with a hobby etc).

Proceed mindfully, moving ahead slowly and with awareness of what you’re doing.

So instead of the old approach which was to feel stressed, act impulsively and eat, then feel guilty, instead you pause, notice the overwhelm, breathe,use your plan (talk to a loved one etc), feel better hopefully.

This can take some time to put into practice. But it’s a skill well worth learning.

Happy Tuesday 🤗xx