Tuesday Tip: Setting goals a different way🥅
With the new year comes the inevitable barrage of health and fitness programs and ‘resets’. Most of these will involve some goal setting and encourage you to visualise those goals. While this can get you excited and focused on what you want to achieve, there’s one massive issue with this approach. You can get so focused on the end goal, you forget about all the things that could go wrong. A more effective approach is anti-visualisation. Instead of visualising achieving your goal, do the opposite: visualise not achieving your goal.
I know that sounds very negative but trust me on this. Imagine failing and then write down all the all the potential reasons this could have happened. Essentially you now have a list of all the obstacles and setbacks you might face as you work toward your goal. Starting with the possibility of failure in mind makes you aware of the things that could potentially go wrong. Thinking about these things ahead of time allows you to come up with solutions to better handle them, instead of them cropping up unexpectedly and throwing you off. l’ve found anti-visualisation to have another benefit. It can spur action. If you don’t feel like doing something, reminding yourself of what could happen if you keep putting off the task then the thought of failing is enough to get me taking action!
The other thing to consider is making your goals flexible. The problem with a rigid goal is that you either hit the goal or you don’t. And if you didn’t, you ‘failed’. If you hit 7,000 steps instead of 10,000 or went to the gym 3 times a week instead of 4 is that a failure? No! So you want to set goals in a way that emphasizes action, not perfection. Instead of setting rigid goals, use flexible goal setting. Instead of a goal to go to the gym 4 times a week make it a goal 2-4 times. You’re less likely to ‘fail’ and it’s a good reminder that doing something is better than doing nothing; that consistency is more important than perfection.
Happy Tuesday 🤗xx
