Happy Boxing Day! A super simple tip today – just try to relax! If you have the luxury of not working today then have a lie in, spend time with friends, family, (or animals) that you love, maybe take a gentle walk, enjoy yummy leftovers and Christmas tv etc.
If you’re working then take some time out this evening to do something that you enjoy. Don’t stress about what you’ve eaten, or how little exercise you’ve done, just enjoy the tastes and yummy food, two days won’t kill you! Get back to your normal eating and training pattern tomorrow and you’ll be back on track in no time.
Managing the amount of calories we consume can be especially difficult during the festive season. Ideally, we want to find a happy balance between joining in with the fun without going totally overboard and ruining our healthy eating regime!
This is the advice I give my clients:
#1 Spread the damage – if you have an event coming up try to cut down kcals in the days leading up or after. I’m not suggesting you starve yourself as that will result in overeating later. Instead try to save 100-200 kcals a day for a few days to buffer the social event e.g if you have a Friday party where you may overeat/drink by 800-1000 kcal, reduce your daily intake by 200 kcal from Mon to Thurs. You’ll barely notice 200 kcals a day!
#2 Cut the Booze – Drink is the biggest contributor to weight gain during the holidays. Often we drink socially over several hours so it’s hard to track. You could stick to low calorie drinks – but what if you don’t like them? The best thing is to drink what you want and control the quantity instead. Plan for a set number of drinks (e.g 4/5) of whatever you like. That way you’ll appreciate it but not feel deprived. In addition drink a big glass of water before you start (as you’re bound to be dehydrated from all the festive rushing about) to help prevent you being thirsty and knocking back the first drink too fast. Have a glass of water after every couple of drinks too.
#3 Keep Active – incorporate a little activity in to your Christmas Day. Face it – we’re all going to over eat on Xmas day (an average of 4000 – 5000 kcals). You’re not going to burn that off in one day, but it will make you feel good if you get active – maybe an early morning run, or a post lunch family walk, or an evening walk to look at the xmas lights!
#4 Don’t Stress – try not to stress too much about those extra Christmas day kcals. As long as they’re not representative of your normal intake the effects of the overindulgence will be short lived. Get back to your normal eating and training pattern as soon as you can after the festivities and you’ll be back on track in no time!
This festive season there’s bound to be lots of socialising and If you’re trying to lose fat/weight it can be a challenge to keep things under control. Here are some tips to help reduce those extra cals.
#1 Be realistic
Saying “I’m not going to have any alcohol / desserts at all” isn’t realistic, but perhaps “I’m not going to drink at every Christmas party” might be more doable?
Decide which events are worth relaxing a bit for. One event a week is a good target, so choose the special events and then don’t worry about them, just relax and enjoy having whatever you want to have that day/night.
# Make a plan
If you’ve decided which events to relax at that means there are some events where you will want to be more careful. So you need a plan. First thing to remember is the reason you’re there is to share time with people in your life. Focus on the people and the activities rather than the food and drinks. Ensuring you’ve had something to eat before going to drinks events, or have dinner plans in place for afterwards. If it’s a dinner then just try to make the best possible choices, fill up with veggies and get some protein in, and drink lots of water. Stick to lighter beers, prosecco, white wines, clear spirits with low cal mixers etc and avoid sugar-laden cocktails.
# Plan for problems
Try to think about the possible obstacles in advance. Are buffets your weakness? Are canapes / nibbles your weak point? Have some alternative plans in place; for buffets commit yourself to one plate of satisfying food only. Make a decision before you go not to dip in to the nibbles and ensure you’re not too hungry when you arrive so you’re not starving when they come round. Making an active decision before you even get there will help you to resist them more easily.
You have to be realistic about the situations you’re facing. There’s no point planning on just eating carrot sticks all evening, you will fail, no question. So be smart about your strategy and honest about what you can manage. If you have a friend going with you share your plan with them, they might be keen to help you and give you some moral support – it’s a lot easier to say no to those canapes when you’re both refusing them.
Stress levels can soar at Xmas, with the pressure of expectations, exchange and excess. Here are some tips to help!
#1 Limit spending
Gift buying and entertainment costs can spiral quickly, so make a budget and limit spending by only taking cash on shopping trips. Make 1 financial decision at a time to avoid losing willpower and overspending. Remember your relationships with friends and family are more important than material objects!
#2 Manage expectations
Wanting things to be perfect can lead to more stress. Dinner being late or a less than perfect xmas tree won’t ruin your day – it may even give you fond memories to laugh about in future! Be realistic with children: they don’t need everything on their list! Xmas is about being together, so plan lots of fun family activities to do.
#3 Take time out
Factor in some time out for yourself – a bath, watching a movie, reading or a walk. You will feel better and be less likely to take your stress out on the rest of the family too.
#4 Don’t fall totally off the wagon
Plan, eat well outside events, stay active – check out my article (link below) for more tips. If you do find yourself overindulging just remember 1 day of indulgence won’t make you fat, just get back on track the next day and don’t make it a month!
#5 Go for a walk
Studies show physical activity reduces the brain’s response to stress, even more so with other people (by 26%). So try to fit a walk in to your day even if it means walking to work, or school pick up, or just around the block.
#6 Have fun
Laughter is a fab stress reliever. It releases endorphins, boosts circulation, helps muscles relax and reduces physical symptoms of stress. Make sure you have some fun; whether it’s your favourite movie, jokes with relatives, or a fun activity with friends or family.
At the end of the day remember, its just one day, it doesn’t define you or your life. Your friends and family are there all year round and if things don’t go as planned you can always get together in January or Feb instead 🙂
This is probably not what most of us think or want to hear but it’s probably the most important aspect of long term success when it comes to weight loss. The weight loss industry has conditioned you to think about your weight/ fat loss like it’s a sprint. It’s a race – get to the finish line as fast as you can, any way you can and don’t worry about what happens after. Now the thing with a sprint is that if you want to win you need to go flat out, forget everything else, doesn’t matter if you exhaust yourself etc because you don’t need anything left after the finish – you’ve just got to make it there.
If you’re sprinting in a race and you stumble on the way then you’ll lose, you can’t afford to relax or trip or make a mistake.
So if you’re thinking of weight loss in these terms you’re conditioning yourself to believe you have to be perfect, you can’t stumble, you can’t have a blip, and you’re conditioning yourself to believe it has to be fast, and every mistake is then going to feel catastrophic. You’re also going to feel like reaching your goal weight/dress size etc is the end – doesn’t matter how you get there, just get there right?
But that’s not how it works for long term success. Start to think about your weight loss long term. How long do you want to keep the weight off for? Your answer should be forever right? So getting to your goal weight isn’t the finish line – it’s actually the starting line. You want to live at that weight / size for the rest of your life. So try to reframe your goals and your timescale – it’s not a race and it’s certainly not a sprint.. unless you want to keep sprinting forever.
So start your weight loss/ fat loss journey with that long term goal from the beginning, recognise it’s going to be a marathon not a sprint and you’re going to get much better results!
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