Category: Tuesday Tip

Tuesday Tip: Feeling ‘Fat’? 🫣

We all have those days when we say to ourselves that we ‘just feel fat’, even though nothing about your body or the scale has changed? What you’re actually feeling usually isn’t fat, it’s stress, disconnection, or emotional overwhelm. It’s hard to sit with that emotion. Your brain often deflects that discomfort onto something more tangible – your body.

Here’s what your body might really be saying:

• I’m tired
• I need comfort
• I feel vulnerable
• I feel lonely
• I feel sad
• I miss feeling at peace in my own skin
  For many women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s, our bodies have become battlegrounds shaped by years of diet culture, perfectionism, and unrealistic beauty standards.
  Research shows that up to 80% of women feel dissatisfied with their bodies, even when they’re at a healthy weight.

This constant sense of ‘not enough’ isn’t just about looks. It’s linked to mental health, confidence, and how fully we live our lives. Feeling ‘fat’ often reflects internal conflict, a clash between how we feel and what society tells us we should look like.

So what’s the fix?
Pause and try to identify the true feeling. This activates your brain’s logic centre which calms the emotional storm and helps you stop a spiral of self-criticism or unhelpful behaviours. Stop trying to fix your body. Start listening to it. Rest when you need to. Nourish it, don’t starve it. Move because it feels good, not because you feel guilty.

Next time you ‘feel fat’, pause and ask yourself is actually hurting right now? What and why is this coming
now? What do I really need?

The more compassion you give your body, the more freedom you’ll find living in it.

Happy Tuesday 🤗xx

Tuesday Tip: Pilates to build muscle? 💪

Pilates is elegant, challenging, and amazing for mobility and core control but can it replace traditional strength training for muscle growth and strength? Social media says yes but let’s see what the evidence says.

#1 How Pilates Builds Strength

Pilates uses bodyweight, springs, and controlled movement to improve balance, stability, and endurance. You’ll definitely feel it especially in your core and smaller stabilizing muscles. But feeling the burn doesn’t always equal muscle growth. Research shows Pilates improves functional strength and posture, but not maximal strength (how much weight you can lift). Without heavier resistance or progressive overload, the larger muscle groups (glutes, quads, lats) don’t get the same challenge.

#2 What About Muscle Growth (Hypertrophy)?

To build muscle, your body needs enough tension and load to trigger adaptation. Traditional resistance training (using weights, bands, or machines) creates that through progressive overload (gradually lifting more over time). Pilates, while great for endurance, doesn’t generate the same muscle stimulus. You might see small changes if you’re new to exercise, but not the same growth or metabolic boost that comes from lifting. When we look at research on strength, lean muscle gain, cardiovascular improvements, and bone density, Pilates falls short compared to traditional resistance training and conditioning.

#3 The Best of Both Worlds

Does that mean ditch Pilates? Not at all. Think of Pilates as the side salad, not the main course. It’s perfect for improving mobility, posture, core control which are all vital. But if your goals include muscle gain, bone strength, or boosting metabolism (and these should be everyone’s goals to age well)make resistance training your foundation and let Pilates complement it.

Pilates is fantastic for core strength and movement quality but for real gains in muscle and strength, weights still win. So don’t listen to social media and think you can rely solely on Pilates. If you love Pilates then combine both, and you’ll have a balanced, powerful body for life.

Happy Tuesday 🤗xx

Tuesday Tip: Are Seed Oils Really Toxic? 🌻

You may have seen social media wellness influencers decrying the evils of seed oils (canola, corn, cottonseed, grapeseed, rice bran, soybean, sunflower, and safflower oils), calling them inflammatory or toxic. But what does the actual evidence say?

The main argument is that seed oils are high in omega-6 fatty acids, which supposedly cause inflammation and chronic disease. It sounds scary, but it’s not that simple.

#1 What Omega-6s Actually Do
Omega-6 fats, like linoleic acid, are essential, our bodies need them for cell structure and function. Most people get about 6% of their calories from them, and research shows this intake is linked with lower risk of heart disease, not higher. When people replace saturated fats (like butter or coconut oil) with seed oils, LDL (“bad”) cholesterol tends to drop.

#2 The Inflammation Myth
Yes, linoleic acid can be metabolised into arachidonic acid, a compound involved in inflammation, but only a tiny fraction (0.3–0.6%) actually does. Large studies show no link between omega-6 intake and inflammation, heart disease, or cancer. Inflammation is a complex process driven by stress, sleep, illness, smoking, and environment, not by a drizzle of oil.

#3 Processing and ‘Toxins’
Seed oils are refined with a solvent called hexane. That sounds alarming, but residual amounts are negligible and far below safety limits. Refining actually makes oils more stable, less rancid, and more affordable.

#4 The Bigger Picture
Health isn’t just about one ingredient. Social media fearmongering about seed oils distracts from real issues such as limited access to fresh food, chronic stress, inequities in healthcare, and disordered eating habits which cause far more harm.

So, can you have seed oils?
Yes, they’re safe, evidence-based, and heart-healthy when used instead of saturated fats. So instead of cutting them out, focus on adding more omega-3s (salmon, flaxseed, walnuts) for balance.

Don’t let fear-based social media nutrition trends dictate your diet. Eat a variety of foods, that you enjoy, and remember balance always wins.

Happy Tuesday 🤗xx