Instead of saying ‘f*ck it’ try this instead…

Instead of saying ‘f*ck it’ try this instead… 🤷

I’m sure we all do this – we over eat and instantly think we’ve blown it, give up for the day, over eat even more and think we’ll just start again tomorrow. Many of us experience feelings of shame, guilt, embarrassment, and stress after over-eating. These emotions typically do nothing but contribute to a continued downward spiral and for most of us they’re not productive emotions or thoughts.

So what can we do instead? We can try to learn from what happened so we can be better prepared when faced with a similar situation in the future. So when you’ve over eaten here are a few things to ask yourself:

⁃ What led to me over-eating or over-indulging? Was there a trigger? A person, location, situation, or emotional state? Did I wait too long to eat? Was I stressed, bored, sad, upset, or lonely

⁃ Was I seeking comfort or a way to escape or disconnect?

⁃ Was there another way that I could’ve coped with the trigger?

⁃ What can I do differently next time the same situation is in front of me? What plan can I develop?

⁃ How can I implement and execute that plan next time?

Say you come home, stressed from work, and you immediately go to the cupboard and dig into a family size bag of crisps and throw down a glass of wine. Before you even notice half the bag is gone and you’re pouring a second glass. First, ask yourself what you were trying to gain from eating the crisps/drinking the wine. Were you hungry? No. So, perhaps you were seeking relief and comfort from a stressful work day. Next, what are other ways you can relieve your stress besides turning to food? Perhaps it’s going on a walk? Doing a home workout? Listening to a podcast? Calling a friend? Playing with a pet? Having a hot shower/bath?

Finally, when you come home the next day and you’re feeling those same emotions, rather than walking immediately to the cupboard , pause & ask yourself:

Why do I want that food?

Do I really need that food right now?

Will I be happy with this decision in an hour?

Tomorrow?

You’ve realized that you’re not hungry and

are seeking relief from stress. The next action will be to walk to a different room and execute your plan – call that friend, do a workout, run the bath etc.

This isn’t easy, and won’t happen immediately – it takes practice and you won’t always manage it but over time you will make progress and changes and remove the guilt. The goal is to acknowledge, adjust and

move forward.

🤗

Xx